Posts Tagged: women


DISCLAIMER: The views presented in this article are not a reflection of the entire male population! This being my blog means that the thoughts and ideals presented are my own and may or may not be shared by others. Please do no attempt to generalize all men and assume that you know what men are thinking just because you read this.

Moving on….

I have always been told that complete honesty is the best policy, especially when it comes to women. Up until the moment I adopted this policy, I believed that to be true. How naive of me to think that I had it all figured out. Recently I’ve come to find that most women to not want real honesty. Most women want “convenient honesty.” 

The term convenient honesty is somewhat self-explanatory, but for those of you who don’t know what I mean, allow me to explain. Most women want sparkly, story book, romantic comedy honesty. The media, movies, and sitcoms have some how fooled many females into thinking that honesty is always a good think when it really isn’t. 

I’d like to think that I’m a pretty honest and blunt guy. I tell women the truth and nothing but. The females that I encounter (and maybe it’s JUST the ones I’ve encountered) do not seem to appreciate the very honesty that they claim they’re looking for. I tell every woman that I mingle with that I’m not looking for anything serious but I do want more than a fuck buddy. I am a grown man that has physical needs so I prefer a woman that is okay with having sex without having a serious relationship. A good majority of the women look at me with disgust and assume I think they are easy when that is not at all what I said. 

Now please, ladies, don’t think I have a problem with being told no. The problem is not denial, it’s the reaction. You said you wanted honesty and that you always respect the man that gives you that. I immediately make know my intentions for us and you respond with disrespect. Doesn’t that make YOU the dishonest one? 

It’s not like I deliver the truth in a mean way. I do, however, deliver it in a way that is unable to be misinterpreted. The last thing I want to do is hurt a good woman because I left her in the dark by only telling her the convenient truth. The way I see it, there’s only one form of genuine honesty and that’s 100% honesty. Any thing else is a lie. 

So ladies I have to ask….

Do you really want to truth?


Ladies ladies ladies! Words cannot express how disappointed I am in the majority of you. Somewhere along the lines you all have forgotten what your are truly worth. And I don’t mean the money you make a man spend on you or how many dates you make a man take you on before you let him hit either. I mean that you have let yourselves become something that you were never intended to be. Every female is born a queen but the actions done and decisions made during their lifetime decide whether or not they keep that title. 

A large percentage of the ladies claim that men don’t respect them. This may be true, but that’s not what I’m here to argue. I’m here to say that a lot of women don’t even respect themselves. Somewhere along the lines it has become okay for females to refer to themselves as bitches and hoes. Media and music have confused the masses into believing that the hoe-ish image is what men want. FALSE

As a real man I’m telling you I want a woman not a bird, rat, hoe, bitch, or barbie. One who knows her value and self-worth. Oh and please don’t confuse that with being cocky, arrogant, or stuck up. Just because you think you’re a woman doesn’t mean you are one. Take a look in the mirror and really evaluate how your treat yourself. Then ask yourself “Do I really deserve everything I’m asking for?” 


You have to give it to get it. Not just give it to others, but give it to yourself.